Centerville, OH- Any relationship can be tough and that is especially true of marriage which takes love, patience, and dedication to make work. Married couples who make their marriage work are not immune to arguments they just know how to overcome their issues and move forward as a couple.
Here we will discuss four of the most cited reasons couple divorce in the hope that it can help a married couple conquer their issues and stay together. If these signs keep popping up, you might just find yourself in need of a divorce attorney.
Physical and emotional intimacy are important components to romantic relationships. An absence of affection and sexual relations in a marriage is a clear sign that you may be headed to divorce. That isn’t to say a couple has to carry on as though they are on their honeymoon, but if one partner is unhappy with the state of physical intimacy in their marriage could drive them to seek that intimacy outside of their marriage.
Not Focusing on Your Spouse
Married couples initially want to spend every minute together. They want to do everything together and can’t stand to be away from one another, but overtime this changes. That need to be constantly in your spouse’s presence dissipates and you want some time away from your significant other. It’s normal to need a break, but it’s a sure sign divorce is inevitable when a couple can’t stand to be around each other.
Money is a big issue in a marriage. Our Ohio divorce attorneys see many marriages torn apart by finances. It doesn’t matter if a couple is rich or poor. Couples who have differing views of how money should be spent and on what. This can drive a humongous wedge between two spouses and is one of the leading causes of divorce. If one spouse lies about money or shifts it around they may gearing up for a divorce.
All couples argue. Some conflict is normal for any relationship, but when arguments and fights are the only way a couple communicates, they may be headed for divorce. A breakdown of communication can lead to a lack of intimacy, issues over money and dissatisfaction with their marriage. A married coupe that lacks the ability to communicate with each other won’t last forever. An issue that cannot be resolved peacefully, without yelling or lashing out, will only become a larger problem and the eventual demise of the marriage. Being unable to resolve a conflict can compel one spouse to call it quits on their marriage.
If you notice any of these issues in your marriage, you may or may not be willing to work on them. If you are then you may benefit from marriage counseling. If you don’t think your marriage can be saved then it may be time to contact a divorce attorney to help you unravel your marital bonds.